Question: Does a resolution have to be written about, or in, or on, or just put into words, in order to prove a sense of caring? Allowing Time to pass? Or do you need advertisements To prove that someone isn't hypocritical? People treat me like I'm some sort of stupid person, they're always trying to control or attempt to manipulate you, or thinking that I'm naive, or dumb.
NewsFlash, I'm not!
I wish they would stop correcting me, stop being rude, and just start listening to me, and maybe try understanding me....
And stop walking away from people that care about them so easily.
I have a friend that doesn't like her husbands relative, he was rude to her once, the relative, even though it was the first time they'd met face to face, only hearing about one another from the husband. So, should she divorce her husband because she doesn't like the relative?
She seems to think it's the right move to divorce her husband.
And stop walking away from people that care about them, it hurts alot of people. If everyone tried a little harder at acceptance, life would and could be so much better.
Enough already. Yes, I know, I wrote that sentence twice, I tend to do that because I feel as though I am not being listened to in life, just sort of overlooked, dismissed.
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Has anyone ever heard me in my 33 years of life say, "you're not welcome in my life?"
Didn't think so.
You have to do something realllllllllyyyyyyyyyyy painful to not be in my life. Like, say, abuse, verbal abuse, intense emotional, mental, physically hurt me, a friend, a family member, a stranger, hurting a child in any fashion, killing, sexual assult-all types, and cheating. That's when I would walk away.
No matter what, I do forgive.
Under those catagories above you would no longer be in contact with me, but I still will forgive you.
The other stuff, the other "wrongdoings" that I haven't listed up above, I pretty much can manage to overcome. You won't see me walking away from you with the others. I will still be there in your life, around you, caring about you, showing you that I do, enjoying the connection in any which way that I was given.
For me, life is just too short, time heals the minor stuff pretty quickly.
I do though, have to learn, that everyone does it differently, but it seems so much simplier to just all get along and be grateful. I guess I am naive. Problem with this approach is that I get hurt, and you just get tired of always being the one stepped on, for no reason.
I guess I am naive.