Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Passed On

"What I should have done was have you guys marching in and out of the house, single file...."

Marching.
Soldiers.
Dictatorship.
Control.

Family.
Discipline.
Emotional support.
Children.
Father.

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pained.
*This quote was passed onto me from a family member, the quote isn't exact, except for the part about having "his" children march around like soldiers.*
pained, definitely.
There is Acceptance- It's there indefinitely-it has to be- For someone that can't see change, or outside of their own truths, you can't have anything else but acceptance that an old dog can't possibly learn new tricks when they've been taught one way as a child themselves.
Painfully managed.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

That would have been a crazy way to grow up!!! I know that we will not look back on the way we raised our three young guys and ever think that. There is a ton of love in the house..There is..

BDD

SOUL: said...

hmmmmm....
here's yer lighter...
:))
tweet tweet

CRUSTYBEEF said...

anonBDD: I love you-Arf ARF agapimou-anf-Ani L'Dodi... xo!

Soul: I'm heading out now, it's 8:00pm...I'll take the green lighter please-
Have a heavenly twilight evening tiny birdie batman!!
Always,
Crusty

SOUL: said...

green eh? i told ya i gave you mine/ :))
here's the green one.
i'm goin to bed.
tweet????

austere said...

hmm

CRUSTYBEEF said...

soul: I'm up!!! Here's green back tweet tweet chirp tiny birdie bat!!

Austere: Whatcha think about that? controlling environment.

Always,
Crusty~

SOUL: said...

wanna run away?

CRUSTYBEEF said...

soul: I'm good, but I know of someone that dreams of running at many times in her life. This woman is the one that's had to endure the controlling nature the hardest, being the wife.
She holds herself together, you'd never know it.
Course, I'll run away as long as it's just for a quick weekend away...:)

Always,
Crusty~

SOUL: said...

oh that's what i meant. i can't leave soul land for too long. this is where my soul nest is...
tweet :))

btw.. you just gotta tell me how you came up with "crusty beef".

SOUL: said...

well? are ya gonna tell me?

Portia said...

i guess some people can't figure out any other way...the worst part is passing it from one generation to the next. these are hard cycles to break.

CRUSTYBEEF said...

Soul; Keep reading, you'll get answers :) (it's okay if you call me a pita-I understand!!...someday I will explain.(Perhaps on my FINAL BLOG!!). and really it's just a silly silly thing...

Portia: I'm presently working on breaking that cycle. :(

Always,
Crusty~